Saturday, April 5, 2014

Ode to scent

I want to be intoxicated by your scent.  With each inhalation, I want to be further entranced. I want to breath you in deeply and for each breath to feel new.  I want to be taken back to relive memories of experiences and times I am not yet ready to give up. I want to smell you on my pillow.  To wrap my body in sheets in which you linger.  I want to live in a cloud of you…

This is how I choose a scent.  Not by a name or a famous figurehead but by the feelings and memories a fragrance evokes.  By the way it makes me feel wearing it. 

For me, the length of each scent affair varies based on my mood.  Some last for a short period of time, perhaps not completing a bottle.  Others will last longer, two refills or more.  Then I change.  The power the scent held over me is gone.  I like to leave a small bit in the bottle to sniff and remember fondly the way my life, the way I, was when I wore it.


My current obsession is Versace Bright Crystal.  Its scent first captured me from the pages of a magazine.  With each subsequent sampling, each time I reach to toss my hair pulling my wrist near my nose, it locks me in tighter.  It is described as being,

            A mixture of Donatella Versace’s favorite floral fragrances…a fresh, sensual blend of
              refreshing chilled yuzu and pomegranate mingled with soothing blossoms of peony,          
              magnolia, and lotus flower, warmed with notes of musk and amber.
              Notes: Iced Accord, Yazu, Pomegranate, Peony, Magnolia, Lotus Flower,               
              Acajou, Vegetal Amber, Musk.
              Style: Sheer. Sensual. Luminous.

All of those things sound lovely and while I don’t know what yuzu or acajou are exactly, I could believe it is a mixture of all of these favorites.  For me it is fresh and new, clean and exciting, and yet there are warm undertones that wrap me in memories of travel.  I recall flower markets, museums, and late nights arm-in-arm on cobblestone streets.  Travel companions bringing both adventure and protection.  This involvement with Bright Crystal is new and exciting, familiar, and captivating.

Yves Saint Laurent Parisienne, for several bottles, has been my go to fragrance. 

            The essence of a woman who is incredibly free—she is not from Paris, but Paris
              adopts her. She knows how to love, how to live. Parisienne is the fragrance of ultra
              femininity and sensuality, built with notes of blackberry, damask rose, and
              sandalwood. The grand floral with a woody structure is luminous even in its mystery.
              ( http://www.sephora.com/parisienne-P247202)  

I like to think Paris would adopt me but this description is an afterthought.  It was the sweetness, addictive like a blackberry cobbler, which attracted me.  The gentle rose notes that remind me of my grandmother’s dressing table and how proper ladies should smell.  The light sweetness in a spritz of Parisienne has always been invigorating.  Applying it late in the day made me feel refreshed and awake.  It still pleases me but seems to lack the depth, perhaps the musk, to match my current sultry tone.   Who knows, I may return to Parisienne in the future.

There was a brief tryst with Ralph Lauren’s Notorious. 

            This glamorous and provocative fragrance was created for a woman who commands
              attention. The intrigue and mystery of a heroine from a’ film noir’ are captured in this
              blend of deep black currant, decadent chocolate, and sensual patchouli musk.               

Filled with so many delights.  It was beguiling but such power was overwhelming for a daily dose.  It was attractive in its decadence, but lacking the needed lightness to match my current mood.  There is not much playfulness in a rendevous with Notorious.

A short enrapture with Lanvin’s Eclat de Arpege filled a spring and summer. 

            Lanvin Arpège, a feminine masterpiece created in 1927, named for its similarity to an
              arpeggio—a cascade of successive notes. Éclat d’Arpège, drawing inspiration from the
              original, reflects the spontaneity of a modern woman.

              Notes: lemon leaves, lilac, osmanthus, peach blossom, peony, wisteria, tea,  
              cedarwood, amber, musks.


A season and smell that is notable in its bright adventure.  Light and pleasant, a good time, yet I have few words.  With so many accents, perhaps I have few words because I cannot seem to pronounce them.  Perhaps comments about this time are better kept silent.  Eclat de Arpege’s classic lightness, with few words, continues to stand the test of time.

While cleaning I recently encountered an old lotion scented with Davidoff’s cool water in the back of my closet. 
            
            Embrace the aromatic blend of refreshing, yet powerful, aquatic notes. A swell of
              lavender gives way to a sweeping wave of menthe. Wade into the scent of
              sandalwood as the aroma of an iris bubbles to the surface, breaking into a flow of
              musk. Flood the senses with the intense force of the iconic composition—a mystical
              alchemy arising from the sea.             

Oh to be taken back in time with such a memorable scent.  For some to the sea, I was transported to the teenage angst I felt during the years it was my signature.  During that time I maintained a sportier aesthetic, followed more than led, and felt slightly unsure.  The lotion made me feel a little unsettled as I put it to use, eager to return to my more sultry and complex current scent selections. 

A more comfortable flashback ensued in using the remnants of a lotion scented with Lovely by Sarah Jessica Parker. 

            Sarah Jessica Parker blends a scent of pure innocence with the exotic nature of a
              precious oil and the sophistication of a fine perfume. Lavender, orchid and amber
              mingle with apple martini, paper whites and musk. The result, Sarah Jessica Parker's
              casual glamour fashioned into a fragrance.

I felt confident and unsatisfied remembering my first years in the workforce.  This time in my life was full of potential.  I was self-assured and hungry.  I remember slinky lingerie tops and colorful broaches popular at the time. Sparkling late night dancing and unrequited love seasoned the moment.  Lovely, like Notorious, does well on cool evenings to cloak and warm the body.  Lovely provided a lovely foray down memory lane.

In search of a simpler time I once spent an hour trying to find a new scent that wafted past and reminded me of my mother dressing for an evening out.  She wore Liz Claibourn, something no longer made.  It came in a red triangle.  I never found the current scent that caused this recollection.  Perhaps it was a combination of a few, or a memory of the time so vivid it smelled real.  The closest I came to finding this elusive smell was its description,

            Signature Liz Claiborne perfume was released in 1986 in a floral rhythm.  It captures
              with carnation, lily, freesia, mandarin, marigold, green notes, bergamot and peach at
              the top, followed by a floral wave of jasmine, narcissus, rose, ylang-ylang, lilac,
              tuberose, lily-of-the-valley and violet at the heart. Base notes include warm
              sandalwood, amber, oakmoss and musk. The bottle is Pierre Dinand’s creation.”            

Many words but still incapable of completing the memory.  Some times can only be remembered.

The power of scent is strong and different for each person.  Pheromones of the wearer transform each scent into a signature that can be used to identify and bond.  While scents can be common and familiar to all, when attached to emotions and experiences, the same scent can have a completely different effect for each person.  This strength is primal and important.


I want to live times going forward in a swirling cloud of deliciousness that lingers and expresses my power.  I want to catch a whiff in the future and remember how I feel today.   Scent transcends time and place, enraptures and inspires, helps to escape and recover.  The possibilities are endless.

Sunday, March 23, 2014

Ode to my new favorite Mani

Moon mani,
moon mani.
On all my nails.
What do the gentle
Crescent shapes entail?

D.I.Y.
D.I.Y.
Do it with ease.
Half circle stickers
Make crescent shapes a breeze.

File nails.
Buff nails.
Cuticle clip.
Two coats nail envy
Avoiding brittle chips

Labels,
Labels,
Half on the nails.
Find them at staples
Maybe look for a sale.

Polish,
Polish,
Two coats of course.
Pick any color
Life’s too short for remorse.

Remove
Labels.
Pull them gently.
They may need shaping,
Guide polish intently.

Top coat,
Top coat.
On the whole nail.
Isn’t it pretty?

Cutting edge tips, no fail.

Monday, March 17, 2014

The Final Accessory

I went to the mall yesterday.  It was a beautiful day.  The sun was shining the magic of spring on shiny new clothes, accessories, and all accoutrements.  Workers were quick and friendly (special shout-out to Nordstrom’s scent department for letting me take home three sample bottles to test out in different situations since I couldn’t make a decision), and shoppers were decked out in varying combinations of skinny jeans, artfully placed scarves, and statement necklaces.  Things smelled good, the lightness of the day seemed to put an extra spring in people’s steps, and life at the mall seemed good.

Except not everyone appeared like life was good.  That woman just bought her self a gift, a fabulous Michael Kors bag, is she unhappy?  Those kids coming out of the Lego store look happy, and the people in the Apple store look like they are headed to a party.  But that lady just smiled and ordered a latte and now she looks like her dog died.  The girl at the jewelry stand is trying to decide between two sparkling babbles but from her expression you would think she was contemplating peaceful negotiations in Crimea.  Maybe she was contemplating the situation in the Ukraine, but for so many people enjoying living the consumerism dream something else was happening at the mall yesterday.  That something was “sad resting face.”

You have surely heard of sad resting face.  You are not unhappy, you are just relaxed, and happen to look sad.  If you haven’t heard about it just check out YouTube.  There are plenty of examples.  No time for YouTube? Here are some stills:

Warning: The following photos are graphic in nature and may be upsetting to some viewers.

"I just lost a puppy." Sad resting face


"Hey, there might be a puppy over there." Interested or happy resting face.

While this affliction can be brushed off in jest, should it be?  Agreed, not everyone needs to look happy all the time, and no judgment if you don’t.  At home, or hanging out with your best friends, go ahead and relax.  Tired, feeling sick in line at the pharmacy, and just wanting to be left alone; perfect situation for a sad resting face.  Displeased with a conversation or bad service but not quite worth a glare; express your dissatisfaction with a sad resting face.  There are plenty of legitimate reasons for a sad resting face.

However, if you are dressing your best, out on the town, and set to impress, let me urge you to take a moment to put on your best face.  You took the time to artfully drape that scarf.  You pulled out the statement necklace and did squats at the gym to rock those jeans.  What if the famous Tommy Ton snapped your fashion creation from afar?  Would you want that sad face causing his Vogue or Instagram followers to send you condolence cards?  Yes it takes some effort but it is worth it.  Be the total package and put on an un-sad face.

Combating sad resting face, as with any other posture takes time. This is a controversial point.  Some say, “This is my face, this is what it looks like.” Sure some people may not be able to avoid looking sad, some prefer to look fierce, or may wear sad better than others, but the vast majority of people don't need or want to look sad and practice can bring improvement.  During an episode of America’s next top model Tyra Banks drilled the importance of smiling with your eyes and demonstrated, “Now I’m not smiling with my eyes.  And now I’m about to smile with my eyes.” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yZhRz6DZSrM Honestly not much is different on the pre and post “smiling of the eyes” but if Tyra cared to read this blog she would agree.  There are things you can do to combat sad resting face.

Sit up straight and flex your face.   Start by smiling in the mirror.  Look at each part of your face and what changes.  It is not just your mouth that moves.  Your brow lifts, your eyes move.  Try wiggling your ears and flexing your scalp.  Practice the feeling of a slight upturn of your lips.  Not a full smile, just a slight flex.  Find the expression that says, “relaxed but interested.”  Maybe even find the look that says, “I’ve got a secret” if you’re feeling sassy.  Remember what that look feels like and flex from your sad resting face to that expression.  Start small to avoid headaches but practice often.  In extreme circumstances if you feel you may be facially impaired or have gone too long in a sad expression Suzanne Somers may have a solution to help you flex that face to an interested yet un-sad expression with her Face Master https://www.facemaster.com/story.php Regardless of how you get there, once you learn to sit up straight it hurts to slouch.  Likewise, once you have experienced happy resting face, you won’t want to do the sad resting face again. 

You are living the dream, look like it.  You are buying yourself a present raise a brow.  Contemplating something interesting look interested.  If you are dressing deliberately to put style into the world remember to accessorize.  Your facial expression is an accessory and it can make or break your whole look.



Thursday, March 6, 2014

Summer Preparation Considerations

Summer Preparation Considerations


Once upon a time, maybe sometime back towards the end of the 1970s, many societal groups decided less body hair was better than more body hair.  From that point forward many methods of taming nature have been developed. Varying degrees of success and pain have been experienced to pursue this unnatural, but now common, standard of beauty. 

Why do I bring this up?  It is not because I love to wax poetic about the social and psychological reasons for this less is more adoption.  I am totally ok with the resulting poolside scenes and I prefer not to contemplate the alternative.  However, if you are contemplating a new workout plan, a new bikini, and perhaps some permanent hair removal as an accessory you are probably going to want to get moving on the latter.  

I offer this candid personal account for your review and consideration on laser hair removal:

“Last spring I decided I was not spending another summer worrying about bikini zone maintenance.  Enough is enough.  I was losing precious years of my life shaving.  I thought about other options.  Waxing is awkward and has a horrible growing out period.  That no-no-hair-grow hair-burning thing was a front-runner but I was kind of leery of the accounts of a lingering burnt hair smell. Needles are scary to me so electrolysis was moved to the bottom of my list.  Lasers on the other hand seemed like a cool option. 

I mean really, who doesn’t love lasers?  Waves of light adjusted to do just about anything?!  I want to put my fingers together and repeat, “Lasers” with an accent and an eyebrow cocked Austin Powers Dr. Evil style.

It [Laser hair removal] was supposed to be not that painful, quick, and with good results.  Of course, any permanent option was going to be expensive so I was slow to commit.  Then I saw a Groupon that offered 6 sessions of laser hair removal for a little over $200.  Seriously, What is $200 for a lifetime of hairlessness?!  I bought it and made an appointment for my first session early in June, just in time for a large pool party the following week.  

Turns out I was not just in time for summer.  You can shave while going through the process but that is it.  No plucking, and no waxing.  You aren’t supposed to tan, and are supposed to stay out of the sun.  Also, it was a six session Groupon because you have to go six times for the same spot, and the sessions have to be spaced every four to six weeks.  I should have started at the beginning of the year!

They described a rubber band snapping sensation for each zap.  It was suggested I take a few ibuprofen, and the office had a numbing cream for sale.  I decided to skip the $60 Lidocaine cream initially.  I guess the rubber band description was as good as any but it was not ok.  The second session, I tried the Lidocaine cream by itself.  Still not ok.  By the 3rd round of treatment I had the pain management regimen down.  I took 3 or 4 ibuprofen, and made sure I started my first numbing gel application an hour before, then the second thirty minutes before, and the final application in the office.  The cold packs before and after are also helpful.  Apparently the cold packs both numb and help to prevent scarring and burning.  Yes you heard that correctly, both are not common but could happen if the wrong level of zap is used, or you do something wrong, like go to a pool party right after and lay in the sun.

Don’t get me wrong, I am happy with the results.  I might need a follow up to take care of a few spots that were not as successful but overall my bikini maintenance is much easier.  I just wish I had a better idea of what to expect.  I felt so naïve!  I had a positive experience but there are serious things that could have gone wrong. “
–Anonymous.

There you have it folks.  The month is March.  The future is now, and hair removal is just a flash of light away. Preparation is key to successful and timely results and because “Knowing is half the battle.” (G.I. Joe) here are some resources for preparing to combat rogue body hair:

Laser Hair Removal: Benefits, Side Effects, and Cost- WebMD


Laser hair removal- Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia


As with any medical procedure, don’t forget to ask for experience and credentials of your technician, to observe for cleanly practices, and to consult your physician for specific advice on potential personal health conflicts.

Sunday, February 16, 2014

Stylish movie review: Diana Vreeland: The Eye Has To Travel

Diana Vreeland: The Eye Has to Travel



2011 
Directors: Lisa Immerdino Vreeland and Bent-Jorgan Perlmutt
http://www.dianavreeland-film.com

Based on the memoires of Diana Vreeland. 


I recommend this movie.  I recommend this movie on a cold day on the couch when you don’t want to seem to get out of your pajamas.  The story of Diana Vreeland is one of excitement, color, and making life your own.  I had forgotten this joie de vivre momentarily.  Or rather had forgotten that life can be mingled with fantasy to incredible ends.  This visual memoire is a great reminder.

Diana Vreeland: the Eye Has to Travel tells Diana’s story with her own words and the words of those closest to her.  It describes the greatest parts about her and the reasons she is famous.  It is balanced as well, hinting at the areas of her life that were not as exceptional but not dwelling on them.  The result is a balanced and complete view of her life and a reminder of the greatness that life can be. 

Spoiler Alert!!!  Synopsis:


Diana Vreeland (pronounced Dee-anna) was born in Paris during the Belle Epoque.  Born to a beautiful woman and “a very British” father.  Her mother used to tell Diana, “Too bad for you that you have such a beautiful sister and you’re so very ugly,” and her father did not allow much emotion.  What her childhood lacked in nurture, it was filled with excitement from the start. These themes emerged through her life.

“My education was the world.” Diana described the Belle Époque as being full of excitement.  She loved the Ballet Russes.  Both to watch and in life as her parents were good friends with the dancers.  When Diana was 10 years old the family moved to New York.  She saw the country and out west met Buffalo Bill.  She described him as beautiful and had great adventure in a new land.  While there was great adventure she did not have an easy time.  Diana could not speak English and did not do well in school.  They moved her to a Russian school.  She indicated she did not need to speak.  All she did was dance.  It was here that she learned, “If I was going to make it I was going to have to stand out.”  Her name then was Dalziel Gaelic for “I dare.”  And she dared.

“You have to be alone in your suffering in youth,” said Diana.  Until one day you wake up and see the light.  For Diana, this awakening came in the roaring 20s’ the favorite time of her life.  She recollected people saw her as fast but she didn’t care.  “Never before did women wear exposed backs, or dressed cut off at the knee.”  She remembered of Josephine Baker that she was the only one that stood out in the chorus line, “She had that pizzazz.”  It was a time of excitement; a time when being different was beginning to be celebrated. 

Diana was never comfortable about her looks until she met Reed Vreeland.  She described him as very elegant, and it was love at first sight.  He took her to London just before the market crash of 1929.  She described London as the first place she truly learned English.  She also described, “the best thing about London” as being Paris, “It was raining all the time.  People danced with strangers… It was hideous and Marvelous.” 

In Paris she began her introduction to clothes.  She adored Coco Chanel and felt she was the word on style.  Coco would personally complete fittings for Diana.  On this process Diana commented, “I adored fittings.  I would go to three fittings for a night gown.”  Diana then started her own shop for ladies undergarments.  She commented that she fitted Ms Wallis Simpson for three nightgowns for a weekend getaway.  It was after this getaway that Edward abdicated his claim to the thrown in lieu of giving up Ms Simpson.  Whether it was the nightgown that brought down the crown is hearsay but Diana’s affair with clothing and style was long confirmed.

Diana and Reed had two sons and moved back to the US.  Diana described her family life as not very exciting.  She glazed over questions about her children.  Redirecting the conversation to tidbits of historical grandeur.  Her son’s described her as a horrible mother.  So focused on being different, to be average was not acceptable.  They wished for their mother to be more motherly.  The relationship with Reed was described as one of a dancers partner, supportive and catching her when she needed but letting her freedom to dance as she pleased.  It is implied, as a mother she lacked the nurturing she received as a child.

“Money is vital” Diana felt and she went to work because they never had much of it.  She was discovered at a party for her fashionable dress.  She had never worked a day in her life.  “Why don’t you try it?” She was enticed to join Harpers Bazaar and stared writing “Why don’t you…” in the midst of a recession throwing out ideas that were adventurous, perhaps even frivolous, to take people away.  Her writing, like her comments, appeared not to be edited but where rhythmic and a surprise.  She rejoiced in working.

She was made fashion editor of Harpers Bazaar and was attributed with contributing “imagination and an original point of view.”  Here she highlighted the fashion of the time as well as made it.  She brought her view of the world to the magazine and focused on taking the reader around the world through the pages.  “Before she came in magazines were all about pie and how to fit in… but Diana said ‘pie, who cares about pie when there’s Russia.’” Angelica Houston.  She provided adventure and fantasy. 

Not an easy woman to work for Diana was described as “threatening, and awesome.” She would disagree with this point, “I am easy to work with, I’m charming but I expect people to work as hard as I do.” She discovered people and started their careers.  She was particular and didn’t provide instructions but described a way of thinking and let them run with it.  Only relenting when the finished product matched her vision. “Even if you’re wearing close toes and boots your toe nails need to be perfect.  Maybe it would make you walk differently?” One model described her approach to details.  She was demanding but in being so encouraged greatness.

“Diana was fashion” and after years of working at Harpers Bazaar without advancement nor barely a raise she listened when Vogue offered her a position.  As editor at Vogue in the 1960’s she found another revolution like the 1920 she so loved.  “Youth went out to life instead of waiting for it to come to them.” Diana said of the time.  She embraced fashion coming off the streets of London, believing it was the way forward.  She brought Vogue from being a “sleepy magazine” to being the introduction of interesting people and new style. 

She saw the model not as a mannequin but as a personality and found models that others overlooked.  “Push their faults; make it an asset,” she said of the models features.  “If they have a gap in their teeth or a long neck, focus on that and make it great.” Diane Von Furstenberg said about Vreeland, “She saw things in people before they saw it for themselves.”  “She made it ok for women to be ambitious and outlandish.” Said Angelica Houston of Vreeland.  In supporting and celebrating art and pop culture she gathered interesting friends.  She was at Studio 54 and in Hollywood.  She celebrated the individual.

Diana Vreeland did not hold staff meetings and was not much for collaborative discussion.  Instead she sent memos.  She sent memos all day long about all kinds of things.  Her thoughts on the way things should be and ideas.  It was said, “She was the first blogger with her memos.”  Her voice was entertaining and style making but it was not collaborative.  While she didn’t judge people for their decisions she often did not entertain discussion on topics she did not find enjoyable.  Her husband got sick with cancer.  She said of this, “it was not something we talked about.  No one wants to talk about cancer.” Her coworkers described this as a challenge to help her because she pretended like nothing was wrong.  Her children also described this as one of her flaws, “When you never express any negatives you never get to the emotion.”  Her sons described her as having “no time for conventional things.”  When her husband died she immersed herself in her work. 

Diana’s visions were grand and so were the expenses of creating her vision for Vogue.  It was said that it seemed she was “sailing very close to the edge” in the way that she provided such extravagance.   When the expenses continued but the readership at Vogue reached a plateau it was Diana that paid for it with her job.  It was her magazine and when she was fired she commented, “They wanted to make a different magazine.” 

Not having time for conventional, no longer working in a position of influence changed her.  “She felt very conventional.”  She was not happy.  The confidence that she had exuded seemed to slip away. 

The Metropolitan Museum of Art hired her as a special consultant and again she was given the opportunity to awaken her spirit.  She also brought life to the sleepy world of the costume department.  She wanted to bring costumes out and to show them to the world.  She made large exhibits, she put the costumes on mannequins and set the scene like a story line she created in her head.  “Greater than a magazine it was alive.”  She painted the walls vivid colors, accompanied the exhibits with music, and pumped fragrance in through the vents.  “It was about ideas, and the vision of things.”  The opening nights became great social events, celebrity filled, but not necessarily accurate to history. “She represented the history as she remembered…. Fantasy eclipses the reality… She felt the pulse and promoted it.”  She was comfortable with this and called her representation not fact or fiction but “Faction.”  When facing criticism from the museum community about her lack of education she reminded them she was there for one reason, “to get people in the door.” Her spirit certainly brought patrons to the museum.  

“I believe in the dream.  I believe we only live through our dreams and imaginations.”  Diana dreamed, and lived in this way through decades of history.  She participated in history and was educated by the world.  Diana Vreeland an inspiration for loving life and living the adventure in your way. 

Notable Quotes:


About Diana:

“Upside down original”

“Created beauty and she created wealth.”
“The Empress Vreeland”

“Diana was fashion.”

“The will, the strength, the determination were her invention.”

“She didn’t pretend she was not inventing.”


From Diana:

On who has great style, “I think a race horse let out of the gate has a certain pizzazz.”

On going to work, “I was mad about working, make about taking the train, mad about it all.”

“The best thing out of the war was the bikini.”

“Since the Gondola nothing is as beautiful as the blue jean.”

“Every girl should have Geisha training.  You learn by exaggeration.”

“Style is a way of life.  It helps you get out of bed & down the stairs. Without it you’re nothing – And I’m not talking about clothes.”

“You’re not supposed to give people what they want.  You’re supposed to give them what they don’t know they want yet.”

“I love rouge- totally artificial.  We live an artificial life.”

“Water is Gods tranquilizer.  To be in it, to see it, to drink it, and to be a surfer—Ahh!”

“Does anyone read a picture book from the beginning? The eye has to travel.”

“I shall die very young.  Maybe at 70, 80, or 90 but I shall be very young.”



Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Layers for Warmth

Layers for Warmth

Did I hear that correctly?  Moving from wind chill “warning” to “watch?”  The difference: a “watch” is only -20 wind chill temperature instead of a -25% (or worse) wind chill temperature with a “warning?”  Is that supposed to be a good thing? 

Weathering such cold temperatures fashionably and also accounting for the variation in temperature that is sure to be encountered is a challenge.  While Mother Nature wages her blistery frigid winds, the corporate “man” proves his success by overcoming Mother Nature with an equal amount of artificial temperature fervor.   There are buildings with radiator heat, and the economically minded that keep the thermostat at 60 to keep your goose bumps reeling.  The ranges of temperatures that can be encountered are extreme.  
 
Leg warmers=my friend.
I recall a recent visit to my local supermarket.  I arrived, legwarmers over socks but under my pants.  I was wearing a sweater, a fleece jacket, two scarves, a coat and large mittens.  Upon arrival I instinctively unzipped my coat and removed my mittens.  I stood momentarily for the pharmacy and headed to the juice isle.  I comfortably navigated the frozen food section and perused the yogurt case.  By the time I reached the packaged goods I unzipped the fleece and started to get a bit uncomfortable.  There was comparison-shopping in the paper towel isle before a few trips between the “sale isle” and the sale products normal locations. I broke a light sweat (did I mention it is a newly expanded Super Kroger, I was probably up to a half mile of distance at this point).   Price checking in the organic isle was a little rushed, and by the time I was waiting in line for the deli counter I felt faint.  I ripped off the coat, the fleece, and slowly fanned myself with the scarf.  By checkout I had developed a chill and it took a good five minutes to suit up to brave the polar vortex that waited.  This kind of temperature change may have taken a less prepared individual down.
Me, Grandma, Grandpa

Layering the right fabric is the key to success in both hot and cold temperatures.  For appropriate preparation I channel the cold weather layering diva skills of my Grandma.  Grandma was a special lady that always seemed to find a draft.  She extolled the virtues of layering, and wool.  Actually, she extolled the virtues of layering wool in addition to both layering and wool individually.  She was an adorable lady, strong yet demure, hair curled, wool mock turtlenecks in every color, often also rocking a wool sweater vest, and classic wool slacks.  She defeated those cool winter breezes with layers of natural fiber. 

What you layer is as important as the layering.  Grandma looked for soft wool that wasn’t too scratchy to wear close to the skin.  This is because if you have to layer something like cotton underneath wool, moisture from your evaporating body heat can be trapped in the cotton and cool you down (Cotton is for warm weather to cool, wool is for cool weather to warm) regardless of your insulation.  Polyester can also be a good dry insulator, as can down, fur, and silk.  Not all of these work in the same way, and not all polyesters are created equal, but it’s good to have options.  There are many new concoctions that can also be helpful.  For further study on the science behind new fabric concoctions try this site: http://www.youbeauty.com/body-fitness/cold-weather-clothing .  The right natural fiber will not do you wrong.


Just a day in the winter vortex.
It is with such practical knowledge that I braved the chill with warmth in my heart.  I pulled a vivid mock turtleneck, handed down from Grandma, from my cedar chest to start the day.  I layered tights, socks, and knee-high boots.  I dawned a heat trapping skirt (kind of an oxymoron), and layered legwarmers on the distance between the boots and the skirt temporarily for the walk from the house to the car.  A fleece, a coat, 2 scarves, ear warmers, and mittens (along with the legwarmers, now my standard for going outdoors) work together to keep the winter wind at bay.  Who says you can’t incorporate a fun necklace?  Certainly not me, I added a black and white agate bauble to make the outfit.  From the house to the car, and layers peeled off to varying degrees to meet every artificial climate, I was set for the day.  Thanks Grandma.

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

New Year, New Opportunity

New Year, New Opportunity

According to the University of Scranton, Journal of Psychology, the top 10 New Years Resolutions for 2014 are:

1. Lose Weight
2. Getting Organized
3. Spend Less, Save More
4. Enjoy Life to the Fullest
5. Staying Fit and Healthy
6. Learn Something Exciting
7. Quit Smoking
8. Help Others in Their Dream
9. Fall in Love 
10. Spend More Time with Family

Ironically, with the exception of number 7 and maybe number 9, I believe these have been my new years resolutions every year, ever.  While I cannot confirm the “ever” I can confirm, by revisiting the past 3 years of this blog, at least one of the above has been present in all of the previous 4 years. 

U of Scranton also reports that by now, 2 weeks into the year, 71% of resolutions are still being maintained….but by June this number will drop to just 46%.  On a positive note, “People who explicitly make resolutions are 10 times more likely to attain their goals than people who don’t explicitly make resolutions.”  Sounds about right.  It is very challenging to achieve a goal you do not have.

(This concludes the statistical analysis portion of the blog.)


Bottom line, life is a journey.  Every journey begins with a single step.  Not maintaining a resolution for the whole year does not mean the resolution was a failure but a challenge to revisit.  I would like to know what happens once you “achieve the resolution.” Do you just give up?  There is no scorecard.  The journey never ends.