Showing posts with label Aspiration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Aspiration. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Diana, a celebration

DIANA, a celebration is currently on display at the Cincinnati Museum Center through August 17th 2014.  This sparkling exhibit has travelled the globe to allow Diana’s admirers an up close glimpse of her life in all its facets.  Cincinnati is the final stop on this worldwide tour.  At the tour’s conclusion all of its contents will be returned to William and Harry.  The display provides a well-balanced look at the life and work of Diana Spencer princess of whales. 

You often hear of Diana’s beauty, compassion, fragility, and her ability to relate to everyone.  All of these aspects are reiterated in the exhibit.  For me, the impressive takeaway however was about versatility.  It takes a remarkable woman to be able to balance an outward softness of a mother, strength of a humanitarian and political figure, sparkle of a crowd favorite, and the sophistication of a princess.  She not only achieves this balance, but also was able to accomplish it in a way that seems entirely genuine.  To me it is that versatility that makes Diana a role model and icon.

The exhibit starts by exploring the lineage that brought Diana to her royal life. “The Spencer women” gives a view of her family genealogy and the legacy Diana chose to continue with her work.  Coming from a long line of strong women, Diana’s family is woven through history. A number of familiar names known for their socialite abilities to impress through entertainment, and those that impressed with their philanthropy precede Diana in her family tree.  Diana is remembered philanthropically with her ancestors.

Georgiana Cavendish may be familiar as the Duchess of Devonshire.  She was celebrated for her beauty, style, political activism, support of women’s suffrage, and allegedly notorious adventures.  She was immortalized in paintings by Thomas Gainsborough, Sir Joshua Reynolds, and later by Hollywood with the movie “the Duchess.”  She was also born Georgiana Spencer and contributed not only to the impressive Spencer public expectation but also to the family heirloom jewelry collection.  Georgiana is just one notable name in a full family tree. 




Riviere necklace
picture from
https://princessdianabookboutique.wordpress.com/2008/11/
Seeing personal heirlooms passed through generations is a treat.  ‘The Spencer women” gives insight into Diana’s family as well as presents some of the family jewels in sparkling splendor.  Here too is a note to versatility.  The beauty of Diana’s stunning crown is a combination of two previously crafted jewelry pieces.  Apparently, this combination and reworking is a common practice in the royal jewelry vault.  One item, a Riviere necklace originally belonging to Georgiana Spencer, is constructed so that every diamond, all hanging diamond pendants, and several large pearl drops are all detachable.  One portion of the necklace can be worn as a bracelet.  Reworking, reinventing, and repeating great things in new ways is not a new trend but one that Diana carries on with grace.

The next portion of the exhibit is dedicated to presenting an intimate view of Diana’s childhood and formative years.  It includes home movies, mementoes’, personal journals, report cards, animal figurine collections, dance shoes, photos, and many other personal items.  These small details are touching.  It is an unusual view of Diana as a girl and a lady.  Diana’s softness comes through in the bubbly handwriting, and the chipped animal statuettes, in the details. 

Diana is relatable as a girl and young woman, and yet you see all of the extra attention that goes into raising a Lady.  The details of her childhood could be similar to many.  Then as she grows older she goes to finishing school.  It is this point in the exhibit where you start to see the differences in upbringing.  With bound books to track seating charts and details of hosted social events, to programs scrawled with what was worn and who was met in the margins, every Lady must take care of the details.  Training to be a nanny or a kindergarten teacher in school, and at the same time training for a life more formal.

Following Diana’s upbringing is a review of the royal courtship and marriage.  Looking smitten in tartan and the 1980s, this section focuses on the official timeline and keeps things positive.  A room of pictures and letters is followed by Diana’s famous wedding dress.  Puffy sleeves, special lace, a family heirloom tiara, and one very impressive train fill the room.  The details and handwork exhibited in the famous dress and shoes are impressive.  The royal wedding plays and it is a reminder of a romantic time. 

Princess Diana wearing her favorite: pink
meeting with Sri Chinmoy,
Kensington Palace, May 21st 1997
Next is a room lined with many of the dresses famous in images of Diana.  This could also double as a review of the fashion of the 1980s and early 1990s as the styles of the time are distinctly present.  Each ensemble is accompanied by a description of how it was chosen, how it was worn, and how accessories were added to wear the outfit again in a fresh way.  Some ensembles are accompanied by descriptions of how Diana chose them or felt while wearing them.  The evolution of Diana is illustrated in her fashion.

A room dedicated to the causes she found so important is inspiring.  Through videos, writings and itineraries you see the dedication and compassion for the suffering.  You see the Princess bring light to challenging issues and to the faces of those she met and consoled.  Diana is described as shy but she overcame this challenge and shined in some of the most difficult situations.  Diana finds her voice and passion in embracing those often cast off. 

The exhibit transitions to the tragic conclusion of her life.  A floor to ceiling case is stacked with books of letters to Diana and her family.  Chills ensue at the illustration of how many lives she touched.  The final public statement from Diana’s brother papers a wall.  Rose petals carpet the floor, and a video of her funeral procession plays on screen as “Good bye English Rose” pays tribute musically over the scene.  Diana’s life is cut short, but her memory lives on.

Concluding the exhibit is a call to action.  Additional information about Diana’s causes lay in wait for action  to be carried on by inspired exhibitioners. 







The Cincinnati Museum Center is also featuring a companion exhibit Daughters of the Queen City.  This exhibit brings light to the local history of women that have dedicated their lives to philanthropy.  Photos, local periodicals, brief and lively descriptions of contributions, and the occasional wedding dress provide a view of all aspects of these dedicated women’s’ lives.  The companion exhibit also concludes with an opportunity to participate with additional information on how to be involved and an artistic station to encourage young involvement.








http://www.cincymuseum.org/exhibits/diana-a-celebration
http://www.dianaexhibition.com/dianaexhibition


Monday, March 17, 2014

The Final Accessory

I went to the mall yesterday.  It was a beautiful day.  The sun was shining the magic of spring on shiny new clothes, accessories, and all accoutrements.  Workers were quick and friendly (special shout-out to Nordstrom’s scent department for letting me take home three sample bottles to test out in different situations since I couldn’t make a decision), and shoppers were decked out in varying combinations of skinny jeans, artfully placed scarves, and statement necklaces.  Things smelled good, the lightness of the day seemed to put an extra spring in people’s steps, and life at the mall seemed good.

Except not everyone appeared like life was good.  That woman just bought her self a gift, a fabulous Michael Kors bag, is she unhappy?  Those kids coming out of the Lego store look happy, and the people in the Apple store look like they are headed to a party.  But that lady just smiled and ordered a latte and now she looks like her dog died.  The girl at the jewelry stand is trying to decide between two sparkling babbles but from her expression you would think she was contemplating peaceful negotiations in Crimea.  Maybe she was contemplating the situation in the Ukraine, but for so many people enjoying living the consumerism dream something else was happening at the mall yesterday.  That something was “sad resting face.”

You have surely heard of sad resting face.  You are not unhappy, you are just relaxed, and happen to look sad.  If you haven’t heard about it just check out YouTube.  There are plenty of examples.  No time for YouTube? Here are some stills:

Warning: The following photos are graphic in nature and may be upsetting to some viewers.

"I just lost a puppy." Sad resting face


"Hey, there might be a puppy over there." Interested or happy resting face.

While this affliction can be brushed off in jest, should it be?  Agreed, not everyone needs to look happy all the time, and no judgment if you don’t.  At home, or hanging out with your best friends, go ahead and relax.  Tired, feeling sick in line at the pharmacy, and just wanting to be left alone; perfect situation for a sad resting face.  Displeased with a conversation or bad service but not quite worth a glare; express your dissatisfaction with a sad resting face.  There are plenty of legitimate reasons for a sad resting face.

However, if you are dressing your best, out on the town, and set to impress, let me urge you to take a moment to put on your best face.  You took the time to artfully drape that scarf.  You pulled out the statement necklace and did squats at the gym to rock those jeans.  What if the famous Tommy Ton snapped your fashion creation from afar?  Would you want that sad face causing his Vogue or Instagram followers to send you condolence cards?  Yes it takes some effort but it is worth it.  Be the total package and put on an un-sad face.

Combating sad resting face, as with any other posture takes time. This is a controversial point.  Some say, “This is my face, this is what it looks like.” Sure some people may not be able to avoid looking sad, some prefer to look fierce, or may wear sad better than others, but the vast majority of people don't need or want to look sad and practice can bring improvement.  During an episode of America’s next top model Tyra Banks drilled the importance of smiling with your eyes and demonstrated, “Now I’m not smiling with my eyes.  And now I’m about to smile with my eyes.” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yZhRz6DZSrM Honestly not much is different on the pre and post “smiling of the eyes” but if Tyra cared to read this blog she would agree.  There are things you can do to combat sad resting face.

Sit up straight and flex your face.   Start by smiling in the mirror.  Look at each part of your face and what changes.  It is not just your mouth that moves.  Your brow lifts, your eyes move.  Try wiggling your ears and flexing your scalp.  Practice the feeling of a slight upturn of your lips.  Not a full smile, just a slight flex.  Find the expression that says, “relaxed but interested.”  Maybe even find the look that says, “I’ve got a secret” if you’re feeling sassy.  Remember what that look feels like and flex from your sad resting face to that expression.  Start small to avoid headaches but practice often.  In extreme circumstances if you feel you may be facially impaired or have gone too long in a sad expression Suzanne Somers may have a solution to help you flex that face to an interested yet un-sad expression with her Face Master https://www.facemaster.com/story.php Regardless of how you get there, once you learn to sit up straight it hurts to slouch.  Likewise, once you have experienced happy resting face, you won’t want to do the sad resting face again. 

You are living the dream, look like it.  You are buying yourself a present raise a brow.  Contemplating something interesting look interested.  If you are dressing deliberately to put style into the world remember to accessorize.  Your facial expression is an accessory and it can make or break your whole look.



Wednesday, January 22, 2014

New Year, New Opportunity

New Year, New Opportunity

According to the University of Scranton, Journal of Psychology, the top 10 New Years Resolutions for 2014 are:

1. Lose Weight
2. Getting Organized
3. Spend Less, Save More
4. Enjoy Life to the Fullest
5. Staying Fit and Healthy
6. Learn Something Exciting
7. Quit Smoking
8. Help Others in Their Dream
9. Fall in Love 
10. Spend More Time with Family

Ironically, with the exception of number 7 and maybe number 9, I believe these have been my new years resolutions every year, ever.  While I cannot confirm the “ever” I can confirm, by revisiting the past 3 years of this blog, at least one of the above has been present in all of the previous 4 years. 

U of Scranton also reports that by now, 2 weeks into the year, 71% of resolutions are still being maintained….but by June this number will drop to just 46%.  On a positive note, “People who explicitly make resolutions are 10 times more likely to attain their goals than people who don’t explicitly make resolutions.”  Sounds about right.  It is very challenging to achieve a goal you do not have.

(This concludes the statistical analysis portion of the blog.)


Bottom line, life is a journey.  Every journey begins with a single step.  Not maintaining a resolution for the whole year does not mean the resolution was a failure but a challenge to revisit.  I would like to know what happens once you “achieve the resolution.” Do you just give up?  There is no scorecard.  The journey never ends.

Saturday, August 31, 2013

Objectives for life


Objectives for life:
1. Live life authentically
2. Be brazenly honest about feelings from the heart (a toughie)
3. Focus on what is most important and do not compromise on them
4. Worry is not productive
5. If you cannot give your all it might not be something worth anything 
all i can think of for now. 

Sunday, January 15, 2012

2012: The year of self-actualization!


2012 The year of self-actualization


2012 is going to be a good year.  I felt it in anticipation of the New Year and continue to have a feeling of optimism several weeks in.  Some feel concern for the possibility of this being the year for the end of days.  I feel, in a slightly new age-y kind of way it may be the end of life as we know it but this is not necessarily bad.  Contrary to many commonly accepted interpretations of the Mayan calendar, the Mayans believed 2012 to be the starting over of a long period of history not the end of forever.  I too believe it is a new beginning, perhaps for a new way of thinking or being.  I believe it will bring good things and so I am dubbing this “the year of self actualization.”

The term “Self-actualization” has been used in different psychology theories over time in different ways.  To boil it down however, in some way, all iterations of self-actualization involve people realizing their full potential, to become all that they can be (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-actualization).

In perhaps simpler terms, this is the year I am actually going to do all of the little things I have been meaning to do, that matter, and this is going to help me achieve my best.  I believe the air is right and this is possible for anyone that wants it.

In my opinion there are several parts to this process that need to be addressed (not necessarily in this order but it kind of makes sense):

First, determining what really matters.  What do I want to achieve?  What things are taking up time and are not important?  This does not have to be an end-all be-all list but a general notion.  This is not easy.  I am trying to listen to my heart, think it through, and not to be too influenced by other popular opinions.

Second, address the clutter that weighs on you as you attempt to be your best.  These are the little things that you have been meaning to do.  Either they are not important so you get rid of or forget them, or you decide they would still be beneficial to you and you just do them, no fuss, just done.

Third, determine the needed steps to get you from point A (now) to B (the best you).  Map these out and be stoic in your process to get there.  Be realistic in the time line and the goals.  Nothing is out of the question but some goals may not really matter, and some may require a lot of steps.

Forth, take it one step at a time.  The air is right not to let fear or ego or discouragement get in your way.  Just take it one step at a time and if the path changes that is ok because you feel when you have reached your full potential.

Perhaps once we have all reached our full potential we will be able to communicate without phones or computers but telepathically.  Haha are you still reading?  Ok, that last part I do not actually believe, but I am going to throw it out there in the event it actually happens you may think I am prophetic and if not, hey just funny…

If you are following me on twitter (pause for effect as you have probably just realized you are probably not following me on twitter.  That’s ok but if you are interested in my sporadic tweets: foundrym) you may already have heard about my early 2012 self-actualization baby steps.  If not here are some early successes:

-January 1, 2012: Actualization item #1: Washed the basket of delicate hand washable items that I have been shuffling around my bedroom for the last few years.

-Actualization item #2: Finally put a flashlight in my car in case of emergency.  Have been meaning to do this for years.  MacGyver would have a flashlight in his car.

-January 2, 2012: Actualization item #3: Stocked up on incandescent light bulbs over 40 watts.  After the shelves are cleared we will no longer have access to purchase the warm butter lighting that brings me great calm.  Purchased 186 boxes of 60 to 100 watt bulbs, and am hoping this lasts me the next 85 years (yes I know this would make me 115years old; once I am actualized I am going to want to be there for a long time).  I might buy more, still haven’t decided.

-January 3, 2012: Actualization item #4 in process: Scrapbooking all of the photos I have been housing in boxes under my bed for the last 5 years, and printing out the more recent photos I haven’t printed because the boxes under my bed are full.  This is going to take a while, as I like to take photos.  I am going to focus on really good photos; life is too short for bad pictures that do not have artistic or humorous value. 
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Here is where my actualization plan started to get derailed a bit.  I was making good progress at home and at work but then started to get sick.  I spent the last eight days laid up with Pneumonia.  Have you ever had pneumonia?  Whoa.  Not to be dramatic but I usually work through illness and rarely have fevers.  With pneumonia, literally there was a 24hour period I did not move.  Scrapbooking was definitely not an option with pneumonia.  It was a challenge to make it to the restroom.  Then the walk to the restroom required a four-hour nap to recuperate.   Had it not been for my mother bringing a variety of chicken noodle soup and tea I probably would not have eaten.  I started feeling really sick Friday tried to just fight through it over the weekend but by Monday with fevers ranging from 99 to 102.7 that didn’t seem to be receding I went to the doctor (in the most embarrassing ensemble I may have ever worn out of the house), had the chest x-ray, the whole thing.  Thankfully I was not hospitalized but was threatened with that or worse if I didn’t continue my sleep/soup/tea regimen for another five days.  I thought this extreme but having just made it through day six, while I am now able to move about, fever free, and managed a short trip to see Tim Gunn, I could still sleep for 16hours out of the day.

At first I was completely bummed by this forced slow down, however, I am choosing to look at this in a positive way.   While I had not intended to address these items so early on in 2012:
-Unintentional actualization item #5: Caught up on my sleep
-Unintentional actualization item #6: Caught up on my FX channel action movie watching,
-Unintentional actualization item #7: Finished three magazines and one book I started but never actually finished reading in 2011 (with more to come)
-Unintentional actualization item #8: Haven’t actually measured but I think the pneumonia may have cause me to drop some water weight and in combination with mild muscle atrophy may help me squeeze into some of the vintage skirts I found in my attic.
-Actualization item #9: in progress but with very good headway: planning of blogging topics, outfits, and exercise regimens’ all to be put into action once physically able.

An organized space and self-reflection will help me prepare for moving forward with becoming the best me I can be.  Preparing for every situation also gets me ready for any unexpected issues that may arise on the way.  Listing my small bits of progress helps with the sense of accomplishment and just may keep me accountable for continuing the progress.  These may be small steps but they are all actually getting done! 

Yeah for 2012!

Friday, May 20, 2011

Cincinnati Fashion Week 2011 Recap


Last week was the second annual Cincinnati Fashion Week!  If you didn’t know Cincinnati has a fashion week, now you know!  Get excited for next year’s events now because the 2010 lineup was a blast, 2011 was a combination of unexpected elements that improved upon itself by the minute, and I can only imagine what fantastic things 2012 will bring.  This was an exciting week and even more exciting is the continued focus on Cincinnati as a destination for talent and entertainment.

I must preface my recap with a disclaimer.  Unfortunately this year I did not make it to all the events.  I missed Monday, Thursday, Friday and Sunday (I know that is half the week).  Even more unfortunate I am told Monday and Thursday were total parties.  However, on the fortunate side I had the pleasure of meeting the fabulous young blogger team of “The Fagazine” fashion blog (www.thefagazine.com) early in the week so I never felt out of the loop.  

Heading out to Tuesday’s event I had the internal monologue, “do I bring my big camera? It doesn’t really go with my outfit and will I lose the moment trying to capture each piece of it on film? But will I be satisfied with my elf quick pics?”  I opted to leave the large camera at home and was regretting it when I met my new friends Zach Shumate editor-in-chief of The Fagazine, Ryan Seminara contributor and photographer of The Fagazine, and Drew Reidenbach freelance publicist at The House of Orange.  Not only are these guys incredibly fun but we also have similar taste in fashion.  When I “oohed” at a design or pattern that caught my eye I found Zach “aahing” and Ryan snapping amazing photos simultaneously at the same things!  Needless to say I did not bring the camera or give it a second thought the rest of the week.  To check out the detailed designer pics, play-by-play of the pre, post, and everyday’s fashion week events I highly recommend reviewing all of the posts from May 9 to 14 on www.thefagazine.com.

And now for my personal commentary:

Tuesday May 10, 2011 
Men's Fashion Refinery

What do beautiful men, dapper fashion, orange caution spray paint, beer fermentation, and personal brand management all have in common?  Unexpectedly these were all elements of Tuesday’s “Men’s Fashion Refinery.”  Held at the future location of the Christian Morelein brewery in Over-the-Rhine.  This event combined many elements I find interesting and warmed my industrial chic heart.

[For anyone unfamiliar, Over-the-Rhine is an area of Cincinnati with a rich history.  Settled by German immigrants in the early 1800s, in its prime it was referred to as the “Paris” of the US with high levels of beer production and consumption, entertainment, and success.  Few know this is where Annie Oakley first ran into Buffalo Bill and auditioned for his crew, and this was the first place to introduce Burlesque to the US.  Cincinnati (Over-the-Rhine most severely) was devastated by Prohibition.  Recent and ongoing revitalization of the area has been successful in breathing new life to these streets, successfully highlighting the beautiful architectural details and introducing a new generation to the rich history.  Which brings me back to Men’s Fashion Refinery.]

I dressed casual for Tuesday but I also dressed for single men.  Jeans, flowing tank belted because men like to see a figure.  I opted for funky fresh accessories with a large white FoundryM garden chain and white watch.  For punch of color I went all out with my DeGroot hand bag (yeah for DeGroot, a local accessories designer) and personalized Tahari pumps spray-painted orange.  The OSHA orange spray paint caught a lot of attention and coordinated with the décor’!

I parked on a sidewalk, walked past a local porch party, and entered a visually stimulating warehouse full of Range Rovers, BMW, and Jaguars’ on display and a sign that stated my entrance constitutes release of my image for the filming of a mysterious production.  I grabbed a new Christian Moerlein summer brew, scanned the crowd of ridiculously dapper looking men of all ages, and perused the tables of local male fashions.

Men’s’ fashion is an area of fashion to which I have only recently been introduced.  In my limited experience it seems the success is in the details.  It is exciting to see Cincinnati has a great representation of beautiful modern and youthful menswear. 

Artfully Disheveled designer Christopher Berre focuses on high quality and interesting patterns with his collection of ties and pocket squares.  As a constitutional amendment supporter and adventurous type I am particularly fond of “the six shooter” tie pattern.  Not to mention I now have a crush on the voice of the “the network” blog on www.artfullydisheveled.com Not sure who is posting but I am following.  Products are available for purchase locally at 45/46 XY Inspired on Erie Ave and Pomegranate & Lime on Wooster Pike in Cincinnati; on the Artfully Disheveled website; New York, and Chicago.  Check out www.artfullydisheveled.com for more information.


Corwyn Apparel designer Corwyn Thomas also focuses on high quality and interesting patterns with much success but what really grabbed my attention was the brand new bow tie that is not yet available for viewing on www.corwynapparel.com (get excited as you are now privy to a new trend) they called it something specific and for the life of me I cannot remember what they called it (!?!Blog fail?!?), “The block” perhaps?  Let me describe it: bow tie in solid colors from pastel purple to electric orange all with white trim tied fat and slightly undone.  Love it!  You will have to visit the showroom to see these in person which may sound like a chore but after talking to Michael Warner the regional sales manager about the private fittings and events they host I am not only sold on the “block?” bowties but also on the experience.  Join the mailing list or contact Corwyn apparel directly by visiting www.corwynapparel.com


Jonathan Mezibov was the third menswear designer featured at Tuesday’s event.  He also provided a stunningly handsome collection in Saturday’s Fashion Finale runway show.  Beautifully tailored slim cut shirts with modern proportions in interesting patterns are the focus.  I was especially partial to the spread collar button down with a bib front in deep purple.  It had a pleating detail similar to a tuxedo.  Interesting enough to be noticed in a crowd but casual enough to be comfortable out on a Saturday night.  The purple is not yet shown but look forward to shopping for it on www.jonathanmezivbov.com

Moving from the expose` of all things male to a large back seating area for an interesting presentation on personal branding.  Key take-away:  be mindful of fit, location where wearing something, personal ascetic and differentiators, and attention to the details.  Elbow blowouts no more gentleman.  It may just blow your dapper man brand.

At any moment a model like photographer may be in a subbasement in Cincinnati looking stylish.

After the presentation the brewery tour was an interesting end to my evening.  As this is the “future” location of Christian Moerlein, the brewery that was toured was the 1880 brewery that originally inhabited the location.  This was great.  Similar to the “underground tour” described in one of my earlier blog posts, we started in the clean and refurbished warehouse main setting, traveled down narrow stairs, a hole in the floor accented with the previously mentioned orange spray paint, and into dank, mud dug tunnels to the malting subbasements that produced the millions of gallons of pre-prohibition brew.  I loved the relaxed tour guide, beer in hand and full of knowledge, and was especially amused by women in four inch heels climbing and trekking where heels have never been before.    


Tuesday was an evening of adventure.

Wednesday May 11, 2011
Tea with Mary

You know I love a day at the museum.  So it is no surprise I loved Wednesday’s Tea with Mary Baskett.  I arrived at the Cincinnati Art Museum too late for tea but in time for Mary and Cynthia Amneus, the associate curator of clothing and textiles at the Cincinnati Art Museum, to provide a video tour of Mary’s extensive collection of Yojhi Yamamoto, Rei Kawakubo (Comme de Garcons) and Issey Miyake.  Collecting since the 1970s Mary is dedicated to these designers.  Hearing her descriptions you can feel her appreciation and fearless dedication to wearing their creations.  And I love that she totally makes it all work. 

I loved hearing Mary’s stories of how and where she acquired key pieces.  Seeing the passion Mary clearly has for the unconventional forms, especially for the designs of Rei Kowakubo, was really inspiring.  I want to start a collection of something specific and stay dedicated to being stylish and rocking it for decades!  I was really struck by the soft spoken description of Japanese fashion appreciation of “the beauty in being undone.” 

After hearing this phrase I couldn’t help but get a little ticked at myself for not being so fearless and not celebrating the beauty in being undone.   I had intended to make a fantastic orange skirt out of fabric repurposed from the table decorations at my friend’s baby shower.  It was a great punching color but with limited construction skills and no pattern I abandoned it as part of my outfit because it ended up a little lopsided, kind of incomplete looking, and a little unflattering with little fit.  As I looked at Mary in her beautiful green skirt with a thick roll at the waist looking totally chic all I could think about was how I needed to be more fearless.  Her is what I wore and here is me celebrating my homemade creation since I didn’t on Wednesday.


 





What a beautiful place for a reception on the stairs of the art museum.  Great place for stiff drinks, delicious appetizers, a dj, and mingling.  I was excited to have an opportunity to express my love of the clothing and textile exhibits directly to Ms Amneus and I am now considering becoming a friend of the art museum.  Did you know if you are a friend of the art museum you are able to actually make an appointment for personal art consultations with a curator?!?  I don’t have any art to consult about but just knowing that is an option totally makes me want to join!
What a beautiful place for a fashion show as well.  Models, hair by Mitchells, dressed by Fetish boutique, and makeup like little porcelain dolls with pursed lips, paraded down one side of the stair case, into the crowd, and then up the other.  Fantastic showing!  (Check out http://www.thefagazine.com/2011/05/cincinnati-fashion-week-day-3.html for great shots of the show).  With so many interesting and wearable options on display it was hard to pick a favorite but the hot pink zippered shoe-booties paired with a structured grey dress may have pulled into the lead for me.  Well that or the all black leggings, black top, and red pumps accented with a black fedora painted with a woman’s face that Mary Baskett’s friend, equally as chic as Mary, was wearing.  Wednesday was possibly the coolest tea in history.

Saturday May 14, 2011
Fashion Finale

Enter through the side door, pass the docked boats, take the open walled elevator with the suited elevator operator, and emerge into the stark white walls and artfully columned industrial chic space that is “The Edge!”  All white chairs and a white runway snaking through the space ensure a perfect backdrop for the designer creations.  Seating section wrist bands color coordinated with vitamin waters placed on chairs were a subtle way of directing attendees to the appropriate section and the runway route was a brilliant way of ensuring that everyone was sitting first or second row. 

Outfit watching while waiting for the show to start was also incredibly entertaining.  Everyone did it up demonstrating personal style to the max.  Of course, I made my outfit, whip stitching an uneven hem 20minutes before leaving, and emboldened by the mantra “beauty in being undone” I wore it safety pin backing up my hook-and-eye closure and all.   The idea was to let the beauty of the intense purple fabric envelop me.  Creating a new shape with the fabric but still focusing on the fit needed for a curvy figure by letting it show through.  Lets be honest, I really didn’t need much more than that fabric to look fabulous.  I think the effect came across, imperfections and all.  Wasn’t the most polished look but I got some compliments and, most importantly, I loved it. 



The show:
Lindsey Lusignolo artfully combines tulle, Swarovski crystals, feathers, architectural details and great attention to fit to create drama and just a generally spectacular collection.  Focusing on custom bridal and evening wear pieces she offers the option of a couture experience through direct contact and collaboration http://www.lindseylusignolo.com/ and, coming soon, a showroom on Main street in Cincinnati. Had I seen some of the designs demonstrated in the runway show ahead of time I probably would have contacted Lindsey Lusignolo for a dress to the event in lieu of my creation, (although as a local favorite I wouldn’t have been the only one attending wearing a Lindsey.  Probably still would have been ok with that…). 

Personal favorites from Lindsay’s collection included the cream floor length satin gown with plunging back and silver Swarovski crystal and tulle leaf detailing; black sweet heart neckline with sculpted bodice and feathered explosion cocktail length number; and the maroon with electric violet sheen taffeta and violet tulle accent cocktail length dress.  Oh and the finale bridal number cream with a grey tulle explosion with grey origami like bustle, I can’t even put to words you are going to need to see for yourself (http://www.thefagazine.com/2011/05/cincinnati-fashion-week-finale-lindsay.html#more)…I could go on all day but the pictures say it all. 

I mentioned Jonathan Mezibov when talking about Tuesday  (see above) but while talking about the runway show let me reference more details by providing another link http://www.thefagazine.com/2011/05/cincinnati-fashion-week-finale.html

Laura Dawson is another designer with local ties.  I loved what she put down the runway and I love that she also has an online store http://www.lauradawson.com/ She is currently working out of London with distribution around the globe but for Cincinnati fashionistas this online access is key.  Her playful designs are full of interesting details and brilliant colors.  Personal favorite for me was the pink “scuba skirt” and fitted crochet sweater.  I loved the pattern of the sweater, they way she styled it with nothing underneath, and it looked super soft.  She also featured many beautifully fit and detailed fall trenches that for a split second made me excited for the first falling leaves before even reaching the summer months (that NEVER happens) http://www.thefagazine.com/2011/05/cincinnati-fashion-week-finale-laura.html for the full playful play-by-play.

If you love femininity with a bit of playfulness you are going to love Amy Kirchen http://www.amykirchen.com/ Her website does not give you the full extent of awesomeness that she showcased at the 2011 Cincinnati Fashion Week show.  She also has a boutique on Main Street in Milford Ohio and I am planning a trip as we speak to shop for spring.   I want the white large pocketed and belted romper and black jumpsuit.  The jumpsuits, the rompers, the patterns, the a-line skirts, and tailored office looks with blouson top blend references of the 1950s’, 60s’, and 70s’ but their modern tailoring and relaxed sex appeal say, “I’m not going to be your house wife or secretary unless it suits me.” http://www.thefagazine.com/2011/05/cincinnati-fashion-week-finale-amy.html

Amare Sinh is edgy and elegant. http://www.amaresinh.com/ blending cultural influences from around the globe the designs are a unique blend of colors and textures.  I love a texture fashion play.  On the website the gold blazer is something I could see heightened to classic status in my closet.  At the show, I was impressed with the designer’s use of full faux fur pelts in a way that still highlighted the lithe figures of the models.

Cala Ossidiana swimwear collection http://www.calaossidiana.com/ was understated with its focus on solid colors and classic lines but with mesh insets, knot backs, and seductive extra long ties these suits were anything but basic. http://www.thefagazine.com/2011/05/cincinnati-fashion-week-cala-ossidiana.html If you like prints you are out of luck but if you like multiple options for how to move the bikini strings to avoid tan lines, and not seeing other people wearing the same suit, you are going to want to check the Cala Ossidiana options.

Amanda Valentine http://www.amandavalentine.com/ hand makes each piece.  Where Amare Sinh was a texture play I would describe Amanda Valentine as a pattern play as she artfully combines interesting patterns in unexpected ways.  I found her sliced dresses to be visually interesting and I really loved the statement jewelry pieces that adorned many of the looks.  She has a link from her website to her etsy store which I am hoping to find freshly stocked in short order.

Arbitrage made its second Cincinnati Fashion week appearance. http://www.arbitrage.com/ You may find the Arbitrage man familiar from Cincinnati Fashion week 2010 or you may find it familiar from some of the many Hollywood hunks that dawn the duds on the red carpet.  The interesting details are really what make this line.  Last year seemingly basic shirts were lined in poker themed patterns and this year, while patterns still played a role in the collection they were toned down and subtle by comparison.  My favorite part about the Arbitrage 2011 runway showing was the interesting and cool hooded shirt.  I could see it paired with a 22inch funky fresh garden chain from Foundry M on a casual weekend!   Favorite item on the Arbitrage website: “movember” Manchu mustache shaped cufflinks!

Melissa Tabor http://melissatabor.com/ does dresses well.  Exposed zippers, check; understated colors and interesting textures, check; fit and structural details, check and check.  I found each of her pieces to be incredibly wearable.  While she represented options for every occasion (love the formal cream low back number) I found the structured top day dresses and interesting suiting to be the strong point of the collection.  They could easily be styled to go from day to evening and provide comfort for a woman on the go in places often overlooked.  Pockets for a day dress are borderline essentials anymore in a skirt full enough to handle them and her zipper ties allowing for self closure (or easy opening) were unexpected, looked chic, and are totally convenient.

Avni Trivedi is all about fabric. http://www.avnitrivedi.com/ Focusing on sustainable fabrics, sourced from traditional artisanal production means across the globe blended old world culture with new areas of global importance.  Many of the silhouette proportions were unusual but allowed for the fabric to remain the focus of the design.  Personal favorites were the white shirt with floral embroidered hem, the use of scarfing, and the finale dress that was a beautiful combination of fabrics and demonstration of draping.  Also, while I do not think I could ever wear a horizontal striped pant I still remain strangely enamored with them… check out the full details at http://www.thefagazine.com/2011/05/cincinnati-fashion-week-finale-avni.html   


The After Party

After three fantastic hours of fashion awesomeness it was on to the after party at the Weston Art Gallery.  Have you been to the Weston Art Gallery?  Admittedly this was my overdue first trip.   My intention was to tour the exhibit before diving completely into the “Exhibitionism” themed party but we decided to get a cocktail first… A return visit to the gallery is in short order as there was no turning back after making the trip to get drinks.  The cocktails were located through the gallery, past the participation art (the half naked man you could paint at your whim), past the wall of large round mirrors, past the woman in the bathtub full of feathers, past the floor to ceiling delicate white fringe, past the dance floor, the deejay, the face painting artist, spoofs of recognizable art in the buff, and past countless patrons in all levels dismissing their inhibitions.  Everywhere you looked there was something interesting to look, touch, or taste.  The x mango flavored vodka with soda and a splash of OJ was reminiscent of the vitamin water I had earlier and just as refreshing.  After a few of these, a little dancing, and a bit of saucy “Framester” photo booth pictures with new friends, and the night was over before I made it back to check out the art.  This party was refreshing art in itself. 







…Ok the evening may have ended a little later after chips, guacamole, and after several more hours of dancing but that is going to be for another blog.  I am fabulously exhausted!




Thursday, March 31, 2011

Ode to a swap meet


Ode to the swap meet           

A while back my girlfriends started an awesome tradition that has since been dubbed the “Sassy Swap.”  Periodically we all to go through our stuff and bring clothing and things that we no longer want or need, we relive the origins and experiences of each item, and finally exchange them.  Knowing they will bring new joy to a new home makes it a little easier to let go.  It is great fun and because each of us has a distinct style it is always interesting to see the new interpretation of the old gems.  

After several swaps where I brought nothing but left with a bag full of other peoples cast offs I have come to the conclusion I am a saver.  My attachment to my stuff is maybe a little more sentimental and tough to set aside than others.  Several months after coming to this conclusion I am loosening up a bit but more than that I am finally arriving at a comfortable and focused place with my saver status.  Collecting clothes is kind of a hobby. 

I am a steward of history; a librarian of trends, perhaps a “trendarian?”  I will unapologetically embrace the items in the back of my closet that kind of fit, are not quite in style, or that are beginning to look like period pieces. I am determined never again to read a style how-to book or magazine article that instructs me to get rid of anything I haven’t worn in a year and get annoyed.  I am simply going to take these suggestions into consideration but do my own thing. Instead I am going to attempt to care for and critique quality and historical context as a collector would.  Really, just when I think something will never come back, it does and I am always happy I took a little better care of something than I thought I needed.  While others may think something is taking up space I feel it is waiting for its moment.

It takes savers and people that purge.  It takes all kinds. While I am approaching my clothing hobby with purpose by staying organized, staying true to my grandmother by making sure each item is mended and presentable, and staying true to myself by constantly attempting to reinvent the ordinary; the organizers are staying true to their clutter free environments by providing a steady stream of stuff for me to choose from! 

I am very grateful for the people that purge as I feel like I make out like a bandit all the time.  They, in turn, may be grateful for me in the future should all of the clothing stores suddenly run out of stuff, should they need historical references for a clothing line, or 40years from now should they be looking for a little piece of vintage youth.  In the mean time, as a matter of reciprocation, I am attempting to dig deep and bring items for swap in this decade.  At the very least this is a great opportunity to revisit and incorporate what I have as new also.  When giving up my family hand-me-downs is less than wildly successful I am writing blog posts like today and loading on the appreciation for the great new outfits courtesy of the sassy swap. 

Purple Pashmina with Purse from Lita.  Thanks Lita
Liv's shoes
Feeling bohemian with Liv's feather earrings, Lita's shirt, my mom's necklace.
Thanks Ladies!


Liv's shoes, my grandpa's belt, Liv's button down shirt.
Thanks Grandpa and Liv!
Thank you clutter-free friends for keeping me interested.  You know, if you ever change your mind, your donated items are waiting for you in excellent condition.